Anyways, lesson on love for the day: do NOT fall for someone in 12 days.
It's no way to stay happy, sure many people believe in the "love at first sight" type of thing, but you can't honestly fall for someone without knowing them well, that's just TOO optimistic, basically ridiculous. I wish everyone would be happy and optimistic but this is reality and we need to be realists. Sure, let yourself go, trust your instincts but don't be stupid.
When you find that person you don't always just "know." Television has really ruined this reality for us, we always expect to just feel this electric spark immediately, or something. But you don't, hell, the person you're meant to be with could be your best friend, it could be the guy who you see on the metro, the guy in your art class, the guy you haven't met yet. Who knows? Don't worry about looking for love, when the time is right, it will find you. Have your fun in between, don't let yourself go though. Be honest and true to yourself, don't get into anything half-heartedly, but the way to stay happy is to know and have confirmation that it's all reality. Then my dear, you can live your freaking fairytale any way you like. Go for it, have a unicorn, dream in the clouds, fancy a trip to the moon, life and death together forever. You can have it all, but just make sure it's the right one.
There are so many different types of love, and sometimes we crave the type of love only a family can give us - unconditional, or the type of love a friend can give, you know the 'always be there' type of thing, but sometimes we just want to know we are someone's everything. I know this feeling we all want this attention. It's so intense and powerful, just like it is when you make someone your everything. In your heart of hearts, unless you know its legitimately the one, don't play games. And especially, learn from your mistakes, and from others.
For example, don't fall for someone who you hardly know in 12 days.
Wow, this was really good.
ReplyDelete"Then my dear, you can live your freaking fairytale anyway you like." Haha love it :P